我们怕连累你 都不敢给你回
“We were afraid of dragging you down, so we didn't dare reply.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
寄钱
“and sent us money.”
我们怕 连累你 都不敢 给你 回
“We were afraid of dragging you down, so we didn't dare reply.”
可你姐呢
“But your sister?”
“We didn't ignore you because we don't care; we cut contact to keep you safe.”
Collectivist family ethics place immense guilt on bringing hardship, political stigma, or financial ruin upon other kin, often leading people to endure suffering in total silence to spare their family.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
to implicate / to drag into trouble
A vital cultural and interpersonal term used when one's own misfortunes or actions cause harm to innocent loved ones.
not dare to
Used to express hesitation driven by fear of severe consequences or deep respect.