不是你想要的 我问你的时候 你干吗去了
“Why didn't you tell me if you didn't want it when I gave it to you?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
“but now you tell me that it's not what you want?”
不是 你 想要的 我问你 的时候 你干吗去了
“Why didn't you tell me if you didn't want it when I gave it to you?”
您有问过我吗 你尊重过我的意见吗
“Have you asked about my opinion? Have you ever listened to my opinion?”
“Don't blame me for your dissatisfaction now when you stayed silent back then.”
In Chinese households, parents often make decisions assuming tacit consent, while children may feel intimidated to speak up until resentments boil over.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
What on earth were you doing? / Where were you?
A colloquial, often reproachful rhetorical question used to demand why someone was passive or absent when needed.
Not what you wanted
Commonly used in personal arguments to refer to unfulfilled desires or mismatched expectations.
