可能我就是这么见不得人吧
“Maybe I'm not decent enough to be with you.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
也没什么奇怪的
“It's not surprising.”
可能我 就是 这么 见不得人 吧
“Maybe I'm not decent enough to be with you.”
叠恩 我不是这个意思
“Die'en, I didn't mean that.”
“Are you ashamed of me? Stop treating me like a dirty secret.”
Rather than demanding respect directly, Chinese speakers often use harsh self-belittlement to trigger guilt and compel the other party to reassure them.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
shameful; unpresentable; cannot see the light of day
Common spoken idiom used to describe something scandalous or someone treated as too shameful to show publicly.
Softens the assertion into a rhetorical or self-derogatory supposition, amplifying passive-aggressive pathos.