再加上我们家出了这么大一个事
“Plus, our family went through such a big ordeal”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
他就是不懂得该怎么珍惜
“he just doesn't know how to cherish things”
再加上 我们家 出 了 这么大一个 事
“Plus, our family went through such a big ordeal”
小蕊
“Xiaorui”
“Given the nightmare our family was going through, his lack of care and respect makes his behavior completely intolerable.”
In Chinese culture, a partner's true loyalty and moral worth are judged primarily by how they support a family during major crises ('出大事'), making failure to stand by them an unforgivable breach.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
on top of that, in addition, moreover
Used in spoken discourse to add a heavy compounding factor when complaining or explaining an overwhelming dilemma.
such a huge thing happened, had such a major crisis occur
A typical colloquial formula to refer euphemistically yet gravely to severe family catastrophes, deaths, or legal trouble.