我还没说要去呢 你可以再考虑一下
“I haven't said I'm going. You can think about it again.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
“you can tell me directly. Don't just leave a letter and disappear.”
我 还没 说要去 呢 你可以 再考虑一下
“I haven't said I'm going. You can think about it again.”
“Don't panic and assume the worst; I haven't decided to leave, so please slow down.”
In Chinese interpersonal communication, providing conversational buffer space prevents impulsive conflict and leaves room for reconsideration.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
haven't even said I'm going yet
Used to correct an exaggerated assumption made by the other person.
think about it some more
A polite and constructive way to suggest pausing before making a final judgment.
Softens the clarification and emphasizes that the current state is still ongoing or unsettled.