你不要老是把别人的事 压在自己身上行吗
“You can't keep putting everyone else's burdens on your own shoulders, okay?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
“Tao is still waiting for me to build a house, transfer his household registration to Jingcheng, and send him to school there.”
你不要 老是 把别人的事 压在自己身上 行吗
“You can't keep putting everyone else's burdens on your own shoulders, okay?”
“You can't just arrange everyone's”
“Stop acting like a martyr; you cannot fix everyone else's problems.”
Chinese family dynamics often feature excessive obligations where one capable member bears the collective responsibility for building houses, hukou, and schooling for relatives, often triggering conflict between partners.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
always; perpetually (often with an annoyed undertone)
Frequently used in spoken Chinese to express mild irritation about a repetitive habit.
shoulder onto oneself; carry the heavy burden alone
Used metaphorically to describe psychological or financial obligations that weigh heavily on someone.
Placed at the end of '行吗' to soften a rebuke into a rhetorical plea or request for agreement.
VOCABULARY & EXPRESSIONS
Parallel Spoken Cinema Scenes (语义近邻切片)
“Don't try to take it all upon yourself.”
“Don't always blame everything on yourself.”
“Don't worry about my affairs. Just tell me if you have any.”