你说我是不是应该 提前跟你商量商量 高雪梅
“I should have discussed it with you first. Gao Xuemei!”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
“No, Xie. I admit I didn't think this through.”
你说 我是 不是应该 提前 跟你商量 商量 高雪梅
“I should have discussed it with you first. Gao Xuemei!”
“I didn't see this coming.”
“You had no right to act behind my back without talking to me first.”
In Chinese social and business ethics, failing to '商量' (consult beforehand) is treated not just as bad judgment, but as an overt slight to the partner's status and trust.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
discuss with you in advance
Standard collocation emphasizing mutual coordination and prior consent in professional or domestic decisions.
tell me, shouldn't I...
A rhetorical device often employed ironically to highlight how absurd the listener's unilateral actions were.