他找你 你就应该直接拒绝 你还跟我们商量
“He came to you, and you should've refused him directly. Why are you discussing it with us?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
“Don't you know what kind of person Meng Yaohui is?”
他 找你 你 就应该 直接拒绝 你还 跟我们商量
“He came to you, and you should've refused him directly. Why are you discussing it with us?”
这有什么好商量的
“There's nothing to discuss.”
“You are too soft; you should have shut him down immediately instead of wasting time asking us.”
In Chinese social interactions, people often hesitate to say 'no' directly to preserve face and harmony, which can frustrate pragmatic allies who value direct boundary-setting.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
directly refuse; turn down flatly
Use this collocation when urging someone to say no without making excuses or beating around the bush.
discuss with...; consult with...
The standard grammatical pattern for consulting or deliberating an issue with someone.
VOCABULARY & EXPRESSIONS
Parallel Spoken Cinema Scenes (语义近邻切片)
“Why did he meet with you? What did he say to you?”
“I want to make a deal with you.”
“Who could find him? Even if you did find him,”
“If you have a problem, take it up with him. It has nothing to do with me.”
“I'll find him and get to the bottom of it.”
“Find him, and he will surely repay you.”