伤感情的话咱少说
“Let's avoid the hurtful comments.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
不说好今天就聊医药费的事
“We agreed to focus on the medical bills.”
伤感情 的话 咱 少说
“Let's avoid the hurtful comments.”
白眼狼
“What an ingrate.”
“Stop attacking me personally and focus on the settlement.”
Even during fierce financial disagreements, invoking 'ganqing' (mutual sentiment) serves as a common strategy to guilt-trip or rein in the opposing side.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
hurts feelings; damages the relationship
Commonly used in conflicts to remind others that hurtful words might permanently ruin a relationship.
let us say less of
A spoken way to urge interlocutors to avoid certain topics or rhetoric, utilizing '咱' to soften the demand.
VOCABULARY & EXPRESSIONS
Parallel Spoken Cinema Scenes (语义近邻切片)
“But love just doesn't work that way.”
“so in love right now.”
“And no one can play with feelings.”
“Feelings often cloud judgment.”
“We shouldn't make it worse emotionally.”
“It's just about building relationships.”