过去就过去了啊 别自己跟自己在那儿较劲
“let bygones be bygones. Don't be so hard on yourself.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
有什么事
“Whatever happened,”
过去就过去了 啊 别 自己 跟 自己 在那儿 较劲
“let bygones be bygones. Don't be so hard on yourself.”
这个女人哪你就得哄 我跟你说你不能晾
“[Mr. Wang, sorry for the trouble. I had a misunderstanding with Hansheng. I'll go pick him up when he's in a better mood.] A woman needs to be coaxed. I'm telling you, you can't just ignore her.”
“Let it go; you're only making yourself miserable by dwelling on it.”
In close Chinese friendships, peers often give frank, directive emotional coaching to help each other overcome stubbornness in romantic relationships.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
what's done is done; let bygones be bygones
Used to console someone and encourage them to move forward from an unpleasant event.
to be hard on oneself; to struggle internally
Refers to stubbornly dwelling on something and refusing to give oneself emotional peace.
Softens the imperative, making the advice feel warmer, supportive, and non-judgmental.
VOCABULARY & EXPRESSIONS
Parallel Spoken Cinema Scenes (语义近邻切片)
“let the past be the past.”
“Let bygones be bygones.”
“Let the past be the past.”
“Let the past stay in the past.”
“[Grand Commandant Lu] [Vice Minister Yang] [Minister Gou] If this goes on, ♪ It's always you ♪ a country will no longer be like a country, ♪ From misunderstanding to fascination ♪”