你别说得跟我们要害你似的啊 就人王腾达那条件
“Don't make it sound like we're harming you. With Wang Tengda's condition,”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
你怎么跟爸妈说话呢
“How can you talk to your parents like that?”
你别说 得 跟 我们要 害你 似的 啊 就人王腾达那 条件
“Don't make it sound like we're harming you. With Wang Tengda's condition,”
“if I hadn't praised you in front of him,”
“We're doing this for your own good, stop acting like you're being wronged when he is such a great catch.”
In traditional Chinese matchmaking, family members heavily weigh tangible criteria ('tiaojian', such as income, housing, and social status), often believing financial security outweighs romantic feelings.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
Don't make it sound as if...
A colloquial pattern used to dismiss someone's exaggerated complaints or accusations.
Given how great their personal/financial qualifications are
Used in matchmaking contexts to emphasize a suitor's socio-economic status or personal background.
Softens the imperative while maintaining a direct, scolding and demanding tone.
