没有跟你商量就做了这个决定
“without discussing it with you.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
我自己
“I made this decision on my own”
没有 跟你商量 就 做了 这个 决定
“without discussing it with you.”
“I know I overstepped, but please don't make a big deal out of it.”
In close Chinese relationships, consulting each other before deciding matters signifies respect; bypassing this step threatens relational harmony and requires immediate appeasement.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
to make a decision
A fundamental collocation frequently used across both casual and formal contexts.
to discuss; to consult with
Essential when referring to mutual deliberation, negotiation, or reaching an agreement with another person.
Indicates the completed action of having made the decision, presenting it as an established fact.