我说的是一步一步来
“Like I said, one step at a time.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
“Why put the old lady through all that trouble?”
我说的是 一步一步来
“Like I said, one step at a time.”
行了 你也别太着急了
“Alright, don't get so worked up.”
“You shouldn't have rushed and dragged her here; we agreed to be patient.”
Dragging elderly parents into domestic or legal disputes is considered filial neglect and overly stressful ('折腾'), hence the urge to proceed gradually.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
take it one step at a time / proceed step by step
A highly frequent colloquial set phrase used to counsel patience, caution, or a methodical pace.