我可得给我自己留个后手 谁知道他们家什么样子
“I should have a backup plan. Who knows what his family's like?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
“Zhu might agree. And the kid? I don't care.”
我 可得 给我 自己 留个后手 谁知道 他们家 什么样子
“I should have a backup plan. Who knows what his family's like?”
“I don't trust them yet, and I'm not going to leave myself vulnerable.”
In Chinese matchmaking and blended families, individuals often calculate risks carefully rather than acting purely on romance, safeguarding personal assets or autonomy.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
to keep a backup plan; to leave oneself an escape route
A common idiom used when someone prepares a safety net in negotiations, relationships, or career decisions.
who knows; there is no telling
Used rhetorically to justify suspicion or caution because the outcome is unpredictable.