你有没有想过他有多害怕?
“Did you think how scared he must have been?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
“Never said anything to me. [Victoria] Did you ever ask him?”
你有没有想过 他 有多 害怕 ?
“Did you think how scared he must have been?”
我自己也不好受
“[snickers] It wasn't exactly a picnic for me either.”
“You only care about yourself and completely ignored his trauma.”
In close interpersonal disputes, appealing to a third party's vulnerability is a powerful tactic to morally corner the listener.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
have you ever considered / have you ever thought about
Frequently used in confrontations to accuse someone of thoughtlessness or lack of empathy.
how scared (he/she) was
Used to emphasize the extreme degree of an emotional state.