我没跟他们说 自己家人 有什么不能说的
“I didn't tell them. They're family. Why can't you tell them?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
多杰和扎西看到了 都会用的
“and Duojie and Zhaxi see it, they'll use it too.”
我没跟他们说 自己 家人 有什么不能说的
“I didn't tell them. They're family. Why can't you tell them?”
身体上的事情 没什么见不得人的 该说就得说 好
“It's a health issue. There's nothing to be ashamed of. You have to tell them. Okay.”
Direct spoken expression in this communicative setting.
In Chinese interpersonal relations, defining someone as 'one's own' (自己人) removes the usual social boundaries and taboos that govern communication with outsiders.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
one of our own / family members
Commonly invoked to dismiss formality, privacy barriers, or awkwardness between relatives or close friends.
what is there that cannot be said?
A rhetorical question used to encourage openness and eliminate hesitation.