那你就暂时不结 缓冲一下不行吗
“Put it on hold for now. Can't you buy some time?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
那你本来也没有 那么急着要结婚嘛
“You weren't in a rush to get married anyway.”
那你就 暂时 不结 缓冲一下 不行吗
“Put it on hold for now. Can't you buy some time?”
不行
“No.”
“We are not ready for this; please stop rushing and give us some breathing room.”
Suggesting a 'buffer period' is a common coping tactic among young Chinese navigating intense family or partner expectations around marriage.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
temporarily not / put on hold for now
Useful for deferring an action without completely ruling it out.
create a buffer / buy some time
Used metaphorically to mean easing tension or delaying an urgent decision.
Turns the proposal into a tentative, pleading confirmation.
VOCABULARY & EXPRESSIONS
Parallel Spoken Cinema Scenes (语义近邻切片)
“if I have to get married eventually, it's better for me to get married now.”
“They can't pay nothing at all, right?”
“As for the rest, please pay up soon.”
“If you don't want to work, get your pay and leave now.”
“it should take some pressure off.”
“Could you please give me a little more time?”