是你们自己一直一厢情愿的
“You're the ones who kept getting your hopes up.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
让你们离我远点
“to stay away from me.”
是你 们 自己 一直 一厢情愿 的
“You're the ones who kept getting your hopes up.”
你
“You...”
“It was entirely your own wishful thinking; don't blame me for any of it.”
Emphasizes mutuality and knowing when to back off in interpersonal interactions. When one party explicitly refuses someone, accusing them of 'yi xiang qing yuan' (one-sided wishful thinking) serves as a harsh, definitive way to draw clear boundaries and thoroughly reject them.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
one-sided wishful thinking; pursuing a unilateral desire without considering the other party's feelings or actual reality
A high-frequency idiom and spoken chunk, commonly used in romantic, interpersonal, or cooperative conflicts to reproach the other person for presumptuousness or imposing their own expectations.
Used at the end of a sentence paired with 'shi' in the 'shi... de' emphatic construction, strengthening the assertive tone and emphasizing the factual nature of the reproach.
