我想让他知道 这和他没关系 是你的问题
“I want him to know it's not about him. It's about you.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
你对他的态度 你对所有人的态度
“The way you are with him. With everyone, really.”
我想 让他知道 这 和 他 没关系 是你的 问 题
“I want him to know it's not about him. It's about you.”
“What? He idolizes you, and you push him away.”
“Stop acting like you are blameless; your attitude is toxic and everyone knows it.”
Bluntly telling someone that an issue is 'their problem' breaks typical Chinese indirectness and politeness norms, signaling intense interpersonal tension.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
has nothing to do with...
A common structure to absolve someone of blame or to dismiss relevance.
it is your problem / fault
Direct, blunt accusation assigning responsibility directly to the listener.