迈过去

有些坎 早晚也得自己 迈过去

(她早晚得经历) ── Previous context

“and some hurdles she has to cross alone.”

才算是真正地迈了过去

(我们李家这一步) ── Previous context

“really get over it and move on.”

这毕竟是李家 要亲自 迈过去 的一道坎

(李家的贡墨 李家自己选) ── Previous context

“After all, this is an obstacle that the Li family must tackle on their own.”